2012 – How Back Chat was first created?

I was sitting today with 2 beings that usually speak in English when I’m around however this time they were speaking in a language that I couldn’t understand. I thought it must be because they are speaking on something they don’t want me to know, like keeping specific information from me. I than heard one of them speaks my Name and immediately, I became alert and more curious to know what those beings are talking about because it has to do with me.

What I was revealing to myself is:

When someone speaks my name through a language I do not understand, I think I did something wrong or someone is gossiping about me or that I’m not worthy enough to participate in the conversation. All of those thoughts and reactions are – Back Chats.

What I’m noticing and seeing in families with young children is that- whenever the parent wants to say something but doesn’t want the child to understand, the parent speaks in a language the child doesn’t know. The problem is that the child name stays the same in every language and when the child picks up his name what happens? Back Chats! The very first backchat starts in a very young age, at home, within the family construct.

So the child goes and think he did something wrong and start feeling anxiety, fear and guilt. Usually, the child won’t say anything to interrupt the parent by asking what the parent was speaking about because the child experience inferiority in that moment and the fear shut the child down.

Another cool point to look at is how judgement is being formed in a very young age. Parents have the tendency to speak about “adult stuff” like sexuality in a different language so that the child won’t understand. And if they don’t know another language, they will speak very quietly or develop their own secret language which the child cannot understand. But you know, children know everything, they pick up our shit but they do not express it, they suppress it. And so, they develop an entire belief system that sexuality is wrong, and can only be expressed in closed doors, it’s not allowed to speak freely about those kinds of things and… Back chats emerge.

Therefore, Backchats are the direct result of the upbringing wherein parents don’t understand the consequences of their actions.

What would be the solution? First to understand what Back chat is, how it was created, how it keeps on being generating in our mind and what are the consequences of the acceptance and allowances of one’s participation in back chat.

Secondly, One must take responsibility for one’s back chat through assisting and supporting self to stop participating in back chat and get self back ‘Here’ through investigating what self has accepted and allowed self to be and become; to be self honest about it and seeing it as it is, without judgement and apply Self Forgiveness and walk the correction.

So – to assist and support yourself to see the back chat, stop the back chat and get yourself back ‘here’, as the physical, for the very first time – Investigate the Desteni I Process. Because it is not only about you – it is about your children and how we fuck up our children through not understanding and realizing who and what we are. It is time to stop ourselves from creating unnecessary consequences because really – enough is enough.

I forgive myself for NOT accepting and allowing myself to realize that when I’m talking in a language the child can’t understand, he picks it up and create back chat through sensing I’m speaking about him.

I forgive myself for NOT accepting and allowing myself to realize that when the child doesn’t express and/or ask me what I’m talking about when I’m speaking in a language the child can’t understand, I’m supporting the polarity created as me being the authority/superiority and the child as the submissive/inferior.

I forgive myself for NOT accepting and allowing myself to see how I’m directly responsible for the creation of backchat in a child’s mind when I’m speaking in a language that he can’t understand when the child is around and thus, I forgive myself that I haven’t allowed and accepted myself to realize, see and understand the consequences of supporting a child backchat.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to think that if I speak in a language a child can’t understand, I won’t be require to explain him the point I’m facing because I perceive the child to be less than me and not capable of understanding how the system/point works.

I forgive myself for NOT accepting and allowing myself to explain the child in details and in clarity how the system works and instead, I believe that I’m protecting him from the system by blinding himself to what is really here, not seeing and understanding that by me protecting him, I’m supporting the perpetuation of the current system by keeping the child blind and ignorant.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to – when someone speaks my name in a language I don’t understand, to immediately access fear that I’ve done something wrong or that I’m not worthy enough to participate in the conversation through participating in back chat, instead of standing up, ask the conversation to be directed in a language I understand and face whatever is here within self trust, self honesty and humbleness.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to access fear, unworthiness and inferiority when a conversation is being conducted in a language I don’t understand because I assume that the object of the conversation is me and bad things are being said.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing backchat due to assumptions that I’m creating in my mind when beings are speaking in a language I don’t understand wherein I immediately believe and perceive they are speaking about me and I shouldn’t ask them to speak in a language I understand.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to feel inferior when my name is being spoken in a conversation that is being conducted in a language I do not understand, and within that, I accept and allowed the perpetuation of the accepted pattern within the family dynamic wherein a child must be the submissive/inferior and the parent must be the authority/superior.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to react when someone speaks my name within a conversation that is being conducted in a language I do not understand because I’ve attached that conversation to when parents are speaking in a language a child cannot understand when the child did something wrong and the parents having conversation of how to direct the child/point.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that a solution for moments when I want to say something that involve the child and I don’t want the child to understand, is to speak in a language the child cannot understand, instead of looking for a solution that is best for all because when I allow this pattern to continue, I’m accepting and allowing the creation of back chat in the child’s mind.

When and as I see myself wanting to speak in a language that a child around me cannot understand, I stop, I breathe and I see how to direct the conversation without me having to change the language. I understand my responsibility towards that child that is equal and one as me, I realize that by changing the language I’m supporting with his creation of backchat and I understand that in that moment, I’m able to take responsibility and assist and support myself in finding a solution that is best for all without compromising myself of the child.

When and as I hear someone speaks my name within a conversation that is conducted in a language that I do not understand, I stop, I breathe and I bring myself back here. I direct the point by asking the person to speak in a language I understand and directing myself to not engage with back chats as assumptions that are coming from the experience of inferiority, fear and guilt.

Thanks.

2011 – Giving up children for adoption because you don’t have money

I just saw a TV series which called ‘Lost’. No, it’s not ‘Lost’ in the island – it’s a documentary journey of people looking for their family members from all kind of reasons. The first lady is a 24 years old woman that was given for adoption when she was 4 years old. She has 7 brothers and sisters and the oldest one was 15 years old when she was given to an adoption. The mother died and the father had to work to provide his family and thus, the 15 years old sister had to raise her 7 brothers and sisters. Because she couldn’t handle it all – they decided to give up the little sister for adoption.

The adopting parents died when the girl was 14 – she was neglected again in her eye’s view. After 20 years, with the help of the TV producers, she found the 7 brothers and sisters and the story was revealed for the first time of why she was given up for adoption. Obviously, within this current money system, lots of kids are given up for adoption simply because the family doesn’t have the support required to raise a child. Money again determines the faith of the child. How cruel this world can be if a child is taken away from his/her family because they don’t have the tools (money/time) to support the child and instead of finding a solution for the family/supporting the family, the child is taken away and being given to those who have money. And we – accept and allow this world to exist the way it is. How fucked up that is.

Let’s stop child abuse – taking them from their family because the family doesn’t have money. Let’s stop telling ourselves that we’re doing a good thing when we give the child a chance for a better life with a family that has money to support the child. Let’s make sure everyone on earth have a better life. The solution is Here and it’s Equal Money System. Let’s open our eyes and stop all excuses of why this world is ‘just fine’ the way it is. Let’s make sure that each and every one of us is equally supported and have dignified life. Join us. Realize that you are the one that can change this world as 1+1=2. http://www.equalmoney.org

2011 – you want to sleep but your child wont let you – drug your child

The other day I was going down on the elevator at my work building and I overheard a conversation between 2 people. one of them have a boy who didn’t want to go back to sleep after he woke up in the middle of the night and the situation forced the father to entertain the boy and thus, the dad was tired the next day. The other person who is a mother told him that if it happens again, he can give to the child a coughing medicine which will put the child to sleep. Then another conversation started about which kind of medicine is the best to make the children fall asleep.

 

Bythe timeI’ve snapped out of a shocking mode, the doors opened and I had to go out without saying anything to them. That was actually cool because I was reacting within myself and judged the parents for what they are doing to their children, instead of realizing that this is the fucking system that we’re all participating with, there is no point in judging nor complaining about it, but to practically stand up, become the living example so that I could show people that which they have accepted and allowed in their world.

 

So here I am, blogging, showing you what is going on in people’s lives – parents medicating their children for their own self interest, so that they could sleep their beauty hours.

 

people require to have license to drive a car, they need a license to practice investment management, a license to build a house and a license to practice law  and yet,  no one require a license to bring up children.

 

That will change in an Equal Money System – it is time to stop child abuse, it is time to stop ourselves and change this world to a world that is worth living, a world where children will be able to express themselves without being medicated.

I’m one vote for Equal Money System along with Desteni I process –which is a life coaching training to educate oneself to be and become a being that is living that which is best for all.

2011 – 15 years old kid murder his best friend under the influence of Alcohol

15 years old boy murdered his best friend under the influence of Alcohol last night. The kid and the rest of his “friends”, escaped and left the boy to die on the street’s sidewalk. (http://www.ynet.co.il/articles/0,7340,L-4078188,00.html)

Of course, all are saying that the kids are coming from good homes and good education. that the neighborhood is great and the kid who murders his best friend is an angel. Really, I believe you. The thing is: it is not about the kid nor the parents, it is not about the neighborhood nor the education – it is about US, as humanity that accept and allow alcohol to exist while we all know what are the consequences of alcohol abuse, and how limited we are in supporting our children to not abuse it. we all know – they gonna abuse it one way or the other. Simply because we do not know how to educate our children to be and become an effective human beings that direct themselves according to what’s supporting them as the physical and what supporting them as part of this all world. We simply don’t know yet how to do it because we’re not that. YET.

We all were angles when we were kids and we all abused alcohol. Even if it was for one tiny time. One time is enough for creating consequences as we all come to know Some of is are still abusing ourselves with alcohol and stand as that example for our children. So if you really want to set an example to your child – stand up as principles of Equality – to say No to alcohol. Not only to your kids – to all kids all around the world.

The alcohol consumerism is enormous where there’s only one winner – the one that produced the alcohol. There’s only one loser – the one who bought it.

Once you abused the alcohol, you’ve been taken over by your own mind, you’ve become possessed and being enslaved to your own back chat.

There’s only one solution – Equal Money System – it is a system that is based only on what is best for all. Clearly, the use of alcohol isn’t best for all if one murder his best friend under the influence of alcohol. What’s best for all imply that if it effect one, it is effecting all.

So parents – investigate what is the Equal Money System (equalmoney.org) and how you can support your child and other parent’s children by simply stand as an example. an example that support all life equality, an example that support only what’s best for all. If you want to know more about how to physically, practically change yourself to become the living example – if you want to know how to educate yourself and your children – check out the ‘Desteni I process’.

www.equalmoney.org

www.desteniiprocess.com

2011 – Circumcision -The Horror of the Holy

Circumcision –

Today, I met a baby that was delivered just a few hours before. When the father changed the baby’s diaper, I went to look at how the pines looks like with the foreskin on.

Let me take it one step back – I was born as a Jew and I’m live inIsraelthus, all males are circumcised when they are 8 days old. Thus, I didn’t know how the foreskin looks like.

1.7 years ago, I investigated the religion/culture reasons for performing circumcision.

You can check it out here – Circumcision -The Horror of the Holy – Snip Snip

What I found out today is that the foreskin is literally attached to the human physical body, it is a part of and as the human physical body. I used to believe that it is a piece of skin that is not entirely stand one as and equal with the human physical body.

The extent of the abuse that we are accepting and allowing ourselves to exists as – taking a 8 days old baby, brutally cut off a part that is of and as the human physical body

No wonder that abuse exists in this world – we are abusing our own flash and blood. 1+1=2.

When I talk with people about this point of circumcision, I see that most people do not stop for a moment to think what is that they are accepting and allowing themselves to do to their child. It’s literally a robotic routine that people are participating with, with no consideration whatsoever of the child life. of what’s best for all.

Let me tell you another thing – circumcisions are EXPENSIVE meaning – it became an industry where people make a lot of money out of it. It cost between 3000-5000 Shekels (900$-1500$). So what driving the circumcision act? Money obviously.

Come on, be self honest and see what we’ve become – we’re so blindly believe that it is an act of/for god where in essence, its an act of/for money. God is just another fucked us abuser who allow 8 days baby to be cut.

Equal Money System and Re-Education system that is based on values of Life will change this old fashion brutally manner wherein children are being victims of almighty abuser god.

Investigate what you are automatically doing. Stop, investigate the point from the starting point of What’s best for all, investigate the point from the starting point of self honesty because you are hurting another human being just because you believe it is right, without ever questioning what it is all about. Stop abusing yourself, stop abusing others as yourself.